This is a recent exchange I had with a woman I have worked with over the years that I wanted to share, as I know there may be others involved in similar situations. It may be helpful if you’ve ever doubted the power and beauty of Love.
THE REQUEST:
“Mom is in a hospice with lung cancer and they say they can't do any more for her. How do I stop this, because my mom and I have unfinished business? I have not gone to visit her because they say she doesn't know or can talk on the phone.
I have been so angry with her these past years, because we can't talk. But I still want her to change and be my mom and now she is dying.
I feel like I just left my mind.”
THE RESPONSE:
Things like this can cause us to "lose our mind", and that is a good thing. It is forcing you to transcend the situation and be in a place of surrender, which is the Silence of the mind, with all its worry and concern.
Your mother isn't going anywhere and even if they say she can't respond, if you were to go and talk to her, she will hear you. The part of her that the doctors are talking about is not her heart and soul, and they are the only aspects of her being that matter and that can receive your communication anyway, and certainly your Love.
There is absolutely nothing to worry about, that's just the ego tempting you away from expressing what you feel you should and want to - so just do it! And if you don't do it physically at her bedside, you can still do it in consciousness, she will still hear you - and if you listen deeply and alertly enough, you just may hear her as well.
THE REVELATION:
“That was very helpful.
I visited Mom and sit there and held her hands, the nurse came in with a big needle to inject Morphine and mom let go of my hand to stop the nurse from trying to speak "stop". I held her hand again, and she kissed my hand. she kept wanting to talk but could not form a single word. I kissed her and stayed a while. Charles waiting for me downstairs, was proud of me, not seeing me ever leaving the house. I want her to heal right now, and walk as she loved walking to Lexington Market.”
LAST WORDS…
How beautiful, how you described it. I’m so grateful that you did that.
Know that SHE is healed, already whole, as the I - her true Identity. She really is!
She’s already walking to the market in her soul body, and she is happier than she has ever been, and she loves you more than she ever has...
And always will ❤️